Oh, hey there. I’m Marissa, and I’ll be holding your hand as you navigate the chaos that is fashion in 2023. And while we don’t yet have flying cars (although I hear Nona’s best are working on that), the way everyone is dressing right now can make you feel like you’re living in uncharted times. So, think of me as your new style bestie. I’m here to serve up encouragement and also some “just between girlfriends” honest truth about what the heck is happening in the world of style these days.
The first thing you need to do to survive style in 2023 is to recognize that there really are no rules in fashion anymore! It’s basically the Wild West. (If you just heard Will Smith’s voice in your head, you are truly my people.) So lean in close, I’m gonna get real.
Yes, your side part and skinny jeans have come under unsolicited attack this year.
Yes, you did own that pair of Doc Marten boots in high school.
And yes, what’s currently “in” is both too tight and too loose. (And don’t get me started on the bra-under-a-blazer combination that’s masquerading as work wear.) But we will get through this together, team.
The trick to being “in style” this new year actually has a lot more to do with YOU than any celebrity, influencer or current top designer. When it comes to establishing your style goals, let go of your inclination to copy what’s cool and let yourself discover what works best for unique you. Feeling confident in your clothes is as simple as determining what you want your style to communicate and then finding pieces that work for: your body, your budget and your lifestyle.
Let’s Get Started!
When building the closet (and confidence) of your dreams, you first want to get super clear on what you want your image to convey. It’s no secret that your first impression starts talking even before you open your mouth. How you present yourself to others will be key as you set to work on this year’s goals. I instruct my clients to pick at least THREE adjectives that they’d like to be described as. Use these as guides when shopping and pairing pieces together. If you’re looking for new clients, maybe you choose successful, approachable and trustworthy. If you’re a new mom, maybe you decide on fun, put-together and friendly. Once you know your “Image Adjectives,” we can build a wardrobe that truly aligns with your goals and who your best self decides to be this new season.
Finding Clothes for YOUR BODY
The fashion industry is finally waking up to the reality of sizing garments for real bodies (hallelujah). So, finding trendy clothes in all sizes is easier than ever! Thanks to the body positivity movement, inclusive sizing is more readily available from big box retailers all over. You can also find both a petite and curvy line from Ann Taylor, Loft and J. Crew.
Finding Clothes for YOUR BUDGET
Thanks to popular apps like Poshmark, finding high-end brands at affordable prices no longer requires a stroke of luck. Locally, Orlando’s Style Encore is a good stop for business casual and everyday pieces. You’ll save more at any retailer if you shop for seasonal pieces out of season. It’s also wise to sign up for emails from lux brands that match your Image Adjectives so you can be alerted to special promotions and sales!
Finding Clothes for YOUR LIFESTYLE
Whether you live for loungewear or favor fussy fashion, I’ve got good news. Since 2020, we’ve seen fashion trends skew more casual. (You can exhale. I’m not going to condemn your yoga pants.) Just keep in mind your Image Adjectives and choose comfy clothes that coordinate and fit you well. I wholeheartedly believe you can be comfortable and still look polished! Just ask Lululemon and Spanx. Their dress pant lines are the ultimate pairing of athleisure + workwear.
And just as we’ve full-on embraced leggings as actual pants, we’re also seeing formalwear on the reg too. When my clients protest, “I love it, but I have nowhere to wear it,” I’m quick to point out we shouldn’t let our social calendar dictate how we feel in our clothes. Wear a dress just because! Sport a sequin if it makes you happy! Stop relying on a special occasion invite for permission to feel amazing in your clothes, girlfriend.
Whether they’re second hand, sequined, curvy, or designer … the pieces you choose to wear this year should serve one purpose only. Your 2023 style should portray the person you’re working to become. So, get clear on what you want to communicate, wear what lights you up, and know I’ll be here monthly to cheer you on.
